Bold the traits of each type of love that are most relevant to your muse.
PRIMARY LOVE
[ EROS ROMANTIC LOVE ( Sensuality, Intensity, Passion ) ]
feels strong physical ( & emotional ) connection through the relationship || begins with a partner who is a stranger & evokes immediate excitement || exclusive but not possessive || seeks early sexual adventure, variety & technique || is ready for love & the risks.
[ LUDUS COMPETITIVE LOVE ( Teasing, Attention, Fun Before Commitment ) ]
is not ready to commit to anyone || has no intention of falling in love || is anxious about a partner who is too intimate || allows early sexual activity only for fun, without emotional connections.
[ STORGE FAMILIAL LOVE ( Loyalty, Siblings and Friends, Commitment ) ]
is not looking for love but is ready if encountered || is quietly possessive but not overly jealous || believes love comes from friendship but not a goal of life || only has sexual desires after commitment is declared.
SECONDARY LOVES
[ MANIA OBSESSIVE LOVE ( Obsessions, Possessiveness, Jealousy ) ]
is anxious about falling in love & has expectations of pain || quickly becomes overwhelmed by thoughts of their partner || forces encourages partner into showing affection & emotion || is easily frustrated & does not enjoy sexual intimacy || is very possessive & jealous.
[ AGAPE ALTRUISTIC LOVE ( Unbreakable, Forgiveness, Wholistic ) ]
is attracted to several types of people || meets people easily so most likely will begin with a stranger || feels concern & care for each partner they have || is neither jealous nor obsessive || enjoys sex & is willing to improve it.
[ PRAGMA PRACTICAL LOVE ( Rationality, Realism, Collaboration ) ]
is certain of their preferable “types” || begins a relationship with an already familiar person || believes a loving relationship is desirable for a happy life || expects reciprocation with feelings || believes sexual compatibility can be worked out.
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